Resourcing the Rage
a Circle Somatics™ Women’s Circle
7:00pm ET, May 15 2026
Content warning:
This is an invitation for women experiencing rage at patriarchial sexualized violence.
It is good to be enraged right now. And it is not enough to rage alone.
My clients are coming to me with rage that has no where to land.
For the Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls. Epstein. motherless.com and countless other websites. For reproductive rights. The everyday patriarchy's casual cruelty.
A rage that names what we see: the systems built to harm us, still operating, still enabled.
And my clients have been naming something just as painful — the women who looked the other way. The women who groomed us into compliance. The women who tell us to stop obsessing over the news, to think of something nicer. The women who say "not all men"—as if that absolves them of what they know.
Our screams of rage being silenced by other women. Many of the women around us are too deep in fawn—appeasement, accommodation, Mother wound, Witch wound, the learned strategy of survival. They can't meet this rage. It frightens them. They'll ask you to soften it, to understand why those women had to survive that way, to make peace with the betrayal.
Me, alone, in the dynamic of paid support, is not enough. This rage is bigger than anyone can hold alone. We are being fed rage-inducing information from around the world all day long — the endless scroll of cruelty, the systems that won't break, the knowledge that no one is coming to fix this.
This has to be a collective fury. That's why we circle.
This gathering is for those who need for their rage resourced right now.
Circle Somatics™ — a practice where we use the somatic wisdom of our bodies and the relational holding of the circle to be with the rage rather than being consumed by it or being asked to silence it.
In this gathering, we resource that rage through presence, embodied practice, and being witnessed by women who won't ask us to soften it.
Together, not alone. Held, not silenced.
This circle gathers:
There’s room for 13 women.
Women with rage about patriarchal sexualized violence against girls and women. Women’s whose body remembers things their mind tries to forget. Women who can be in a room with other women's fury without needing to fix it.
I wish it didn’t need to be said, but it does: Transwomen are women and are welcome. This is not a gathering for men.
If you’re not sure what it will be like to be in a room with rage free to be expressed, I welcome you to try and leave or turn your volume off as you need. However, this circle can't be both a rage-holding space and a safety-management space. Those are different containers. And that's okay. Not every space is for every person. Being triggered by other people's intense feelings is real and important information. That might mean individual work is a better fit for you right now. Reach out—I offer somatic coaching for that.
This gathering will not be recorded.
Meet Tanya
For over 25 years, I've been supporting women in learning to trust themselves and each other. I believe systemic problems create individual consequences, and the only real solution is connection — which means we can't heal alone.
I’m a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Assistant trainer, and I ground my work in gentle anti-capitalist beliefs.
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This first gathering is offered freely. If you want to resource the mutual aid efforts I want to support, an Indigenous woman with long COVID in my circles, you may send your donations directly:
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